Wednesday, January 28, 2009

This precious little girl on the very left just turned 25 yesterday.

Yesterday was Tara's 25th birthday and lots of friends ventured out to the classic skating rink in Salt Lake City to celebrate one of her favorite past times. I cannot believe it has been about 11 years since I met Tara. When I first met her she had a cute little bob of a haircut ( not really a bob, she just has lots of hair) and some cute little orthodontic apparel on her upper canines. Her and Sally were the first to have AOL and Tara had a before her time and advance affinity for Michael Jackson. Tara today is still a short haired beautiful sweet 25 year old with really straight teeth. She is one of the 4 people that wrote to me on my mission even being at the peak of her social life at BYU Hawaii. Tara is one of a kind and is secretive about the fact that she is one of the most caring friends you'll ever have. Tara is a really talented designer who one day will hopefully let us all see how gifted she is. I'm so grateful I have had these Shields girls around for so many life altering events in all of our lives. Thanks for being such a great friend and sister T, I love you. Nate loves you too.


Tara's cute new haircut
Tara's birthday get-up

Lezlie being taught how to skate backwards by a Hollywood Connection regular
Lez really won over these kids and many others when she passed out birthday cake to themCutting the tasty roller skating girl cake that Lez had custom made for the party



In other news.. Nate and I celebrated our first month of marriage yesterday. I woke up to a cardigan I had been eyeing as his first anniversary present to me. I'm wearing it in all the skating pictures. Nate is the best at paying attention to everything I have ever said and surprising me- I am really good at ruining surprises. One month down, lots more to go.

Sunday, January 18, 2009

Happy Birthday Cay!




It's our good friend Cayleen's Birthday today. She has been a really good friend to me. Cayleen has taught me how to truly celebrate a loved one's birthday-with a wake up breakfast and surprise balloon/ streamer display. She's a thrifty gal who really knows how to work hard and save her money and I've always admired that. She'll do anything for a good friend and is much wiser than she should be at age 25. She's engaged to be married May 8th 2009 to a talented, wonderful, funny, and great looking bearded man-Mr. Jordan Pratt Haynie. Cay thank you so much for being so caring and selfless and such an amazing friend whenever I've really really needed you. We love you! Love, Nathan and Nichelle

Here are some pictures from the birthday dinner last night...

Saturday, January 17, 2009

The first sign of changes coming on..

Today I thought about how Nate and his love for me naturally forces a desire in me to be financially responsible. I've never had that and I love it. I thought about all the money I've spent on things I couldn't afford in my lifetime and how I now have the desire to be the Latin Suze Orman. I'm on the right track I think. Here's why....
Financially, I'm kicking a bad habitual process of mine:

Step 1 -WANT/FEEL
Step 2-DO/ENGAGE/DECIDE


My new process goes like this: Step 1-WANT
Step 2- CALM DOWN from the child-like need to engage
Step 3-THINK ABOUT consequences, pros, cons, anything will do really as long as I think.
Step 4-MAKE THE MOST EDUCATED DECISION


I'm sure this is what most people do when they make decisions. For some reason, I never have known how to do this. Spiritually, that child-like process has worked just great: I feel and then I move or decide. It doesn't transfer over well into other aspects of life sometimes though. The best thing I'm seeing right now is that nothing is ever finished and everything remains in the stage of "process." I will always be in the process of kicking my bad habits because I should always be working to be better. I will always be in the process of trying to be a great wife or a wonderful mother and probably won't ever be finished working on those. I will always be in the process of trying to be a disciple of Christ, always working and never finished. Nate's New Testament teacher talked about the true definition of the word perfect referenced in Mathew 5:48.."Be ye therefore perfect even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect." He says in our "2009 colloquial English language" the word means finished. So when we say we can't be perfect as the Savior, I guess we mean we can't be finished. In my life I won't be finished with the things that matter most. They will be a lifetime work in progress. That's ok with me, as long as I'm working and not giving up. I'm refining old habits and changing all the time, and I think that's the big idea.

So when I saw that Van Morrison was playing the album "Astral Weeks" in it's entirety live in L.A. for ONLY $100.oo per person I (step 1) wanted to go so bad, as he is one of my favorite singer/songwriters ever. I (step 2) stopped and did not buy a ticket and plan a trip to LA. I (step 3) thought about how much I love the Astral Weeks album and how I don't know many how many more chances I'll have to see him live. I (step 4) thought about how ridiculous of a person I have always been for entertaining and acting upon thoughts like this. I thought Nish, you are truly crazy, how did you live like that? Step 5, I decided maybe getting the DVD of the concert that goes for $15 for Valentines Day would be an ok decision. Deal, sounds good. And I haven't even thought about it since. Don't even care about missing out on ridiculous things because, like I said, I'm more concerned with being Suze Orman's protege. And these are the first thoughts and changes of my new stage in life, I hope I can share more as they come.

Sunday, January 11, 2009

We are so hot right now...

Our photographer emailed us with news that his wedding blogger friend loved our pictures and featured us in a post. Its pretty rad. Rock 'n Roll...

http://www.rocknrollbride.com/

Friday, January 9, 2009

Christmas, Wedding, Two Fiestas, Honeymoon, Move-in, and a new family



I'm really nervous about blogging because I really don't enjoy having people read my writing. Nathan is going to have to post sometimes. I am so happy though that I have the pressure from fellow Jensen women to blog because otherwise I would have no written record of my life. There's a lot to start off with in the first blog, it's very overwhelming. Nathan and I feel so happy and blessed at this point in our lives. I look back at our friendship and I'm so grateful it developed as it did and I am just in awe of "the big picture." Heavenly Father really has been so helpful, loving, and gracious to me my whole life and I really am speechless seeing daily that His will and plan is so much better than anything I could have imagined. On December 27th 2008 in the San Diego temple I married my best friend and the one who makes me laugh most. I married my example and helper in the path that brings me closer to the Lord. I found the one person whose unconditional love for me and patience with me is only matched by the Lord. Thank you Nathan for being so much more than I could have asked for.
We spent a fun child filled Christmas at the Harper household with all of Sally's siblings and Randy's family. I haven't had a magical Christmas like that ever, it really is different with little children around. Nate was right, and I loved it. Thank you Randy & Christy for letting us be a part of the family.
We had our San Diego reception on Saturday December 27th at Scott & Brooke Shields' beautiful backyard after a long cold day of being married and taking pictures with the photographer. (We'll post them as soon as we get them.) Scott and Brooke went way out of their way to help us out and constructed a dream contraption for me to be able to have the banners I wanted and Brooke had special lights and decorations put up just for the reception. The Shields men and Jensen guys were my little fragle rock doozers who hammered and built the night away. Thank you guys. I had only finished maybe 1/3 of what I wanted to get done the night before the big day, and had to finally just let go and be done when I left for the temple Saturday morning. When Nathan and I got to the Shields house on Saturday night, my little wedding fairies had blown my mind. My sweet friends and family had done such a great job of setting things up for me without me there. Thank you so much Sal, Lez, Tara, Amy. Thank you so much for helping with a smile, even while simultaneously taking care of your kids.

Honeymoon....We went to Cabo San Lucas for four days. No one knew, but our trip kicked off with a bang when we missed our 6am flight out of San Diego the day after our reception. Luckily, we had no problem catching the next available flights, and we arrived to Mexico only 2 hours later than planned. We loved our hotel "Hacienda Del Mar." The hotel was on the beach and 15 min away from the town. We spent our days drinking virgin pina coladas on the beach or at the ocean view pool, and one day touring the town and kayaking. Kayaking was a little nuts, but I had so much fun just walking around the marina with Nathan. Really, it was too too great.

Glen and Laurel had a beautiful open house (and party for Glen) for us at their home in AZ when we came back from our Honeymoon. (We don't have pictures :( see Janae's blog) Once again, the family and friends troops rallied hard and produced an army of donuts and set up another beautiful setting for a second fiesta. Susan, with a newborn in the other room, amazingly hosted quite the workshop of donut makers at her home. The stellar Ostler sisterhood blew me away. Laurel, Janis, and Becky really made me think of the song "Whistle While You Work." They cooked and cleaned all day long with a smile and a cheerful disposition for our second celebration, when two of them had spent only hours with me up to that point. I love you all and am so lucky to have you all as family. Thank you to all of my new family for everything you did for us for all of our celebrations.
We're back in Provo trying to settle into our new life. My grandma came up and helped us move in. I got a job! Thanks to some help from a kind friend, I'll start working for City Deals at 8:30 am on Monday morning. City Deals is a website that sells discounted gift cards and is a place where you can find any deal going on in Utah Valley. I'm just so grateful and amazed that I was able to find a job in these cut-back times. Nathan is back in school and works in advertising for the Daily Universe at BYU. I love seeing him work, I am so impressed with his innate skill to make people feel comfortable with him. He talks to people as he would talk to me and it reminds me that he really does love all people and treats everyone with kindness and respect.
We're excited for what's ahead. We hope that we'll both get better at taking pictures so we can have some kind of memory of our life. I hope that my blog posts aren't as long as this first one. By the way, I love the condo. This should not be what sets the bar for a newlywed apartment. Never in my life have I lived in a place that had an ice and water dispensing refrigerator and a jacuzzi tub. I'm pretty sure we're the only newlywed couple in provo with a garage for both of our cars. We feel very lucky.